Discipleship is such a broad topic. It involves a wide array of factors, methods, and studies. Yet, practically, I am learning little by little how to disciple others. A lot of it involves how I think about people, how I approach them, what I expect from our relationship. It’s not as simple as it might seem!

For instance, I’m learning that there’s a fine line between my responsibility to be involved in someone’s spiritual journey and that person’s own responsibility to follow Christ herself. I suppose it’s similar to Galatians 6 where it says we are to bear one another’s burdens, but each should bear his own load. As a disciple-maker, I need to be aware of the spiritual needs around me — not only the needs of those who are lost, but also of those anywhere on the journey to Christlikeness. I’ve noticed recently in my attempt at learning how to do this, that I’ve allowed myself to focus too much on the needs of people and have taken my eyes off Christ Himself. I grow frustrated or discouraged when the people I try to help, continue to make poor choices, don’t respond, or don’t change as quickly as I wish.

Norman has been my discipler for many years now. I’m so grateful for him as he talks me through my misunderstandings of what God expects and how to view ministry and discipling others. One thing we talked of this week is how we cannot change anyone. That is God’s work. It’s not my job to change anyone! God hasn’t given me that authority. He is in control of the spiritual growth of each Christian. He is perfectly capable of changing each one to become more like Jesus day by day. He invites me to be a tool He can use in some people’s lives, but I’m not the key figure in the scenario. Christ is the key! It’s rather freeing to realize this! I can’t mess up God’s work! No one can thwart what He’s doing! (Psalm 33:8-11)

I haven’t arrived yet as a disciple-maker, but I desire to be a useful tool in the hand of God.

Lord, keep my eyes on You as I reach out to others. I don’t have all the answers, but You ARE the answer to every question! Help me point others to You. You’ve reminded me lately how You are not only my Savior from sin, but You’re also my Savior every day. I need Your rescuing moment by moment in order to be free from the clutches of sin, selfishness, and worldly desires. Change me, please! In Jesus’ powerful name, Amen!