Still Settling In

Many people must be praying for the Smith family, because we’ve been seeing God’s blessings on every hand! God is so good to His children! The past couple weeks have been super busy! Norman has had numerous video calls with EveryEthne, his new ministry within ABWE. We are thankful to have this decision finalized! So much was up in the air, as we waited on God to show us next steps. Thankfully, nothing is ever “up in the air” with God. He knows the end from the beginning!

Eileen & Susan

My mom and I have been getting along famously! We have worked up a bit of a schedule to accomplish certain goals, including decluttering the house, exercising, working on writing projects, and serving others around us. I’m so grateful for this time to spend with my mother! She is still such a godly example to me!

Please continue to pray for our family in the coming weeks. Norman will be returning briefly to Japan to sell our house and return with our oldest two kids. We look forward to seeing them again! Thanks so much for your prayers on our behalf.

Melodie continues with homeschool subjects as she completes her junior year of high school. Grandma has been teaching her to swim. Melodie and Norman participated in a fundraising event for Camp Fairwood. They each biked 35 miles and brought in over $1,000 of donations!

Our summer plans include these: Susan hopes to begin CNA training in June. Norman has taken some additional training this spring, and he will attend a conference or two this summer. He will fly back to Japan in late May, finishing up last details there and accompanying Chloe and Cameron back to the States. Chloe has plans to tour the Midwest and Alabama, singing her original songs at churches and home concerts. If anyone is interested in having her come, please contact her at www.chloejanelle.com. Cameron will join her to provide accompaniment, except during early July when he takes a mission trip to Bolivia. Please keep these two in your prayers this summer!

Thank you for each of you who have been praying! We have been able to locate and purchase several used cars in anticipation of our children coming to the US for college and for our use. Norman’s new ministry role will include quite a bit of travel, so this is an important step.

A New Life

Easter provides a great opportunity to LOOK BACK. Our family attended a Good Friday service at First Baptist Church in Kiel, WI. We had never taken part in such an event, but it was a huge blessing! Remembering all that Jesus went through for me — Wow. He deserves all the praise, the glory, and the honor! He also deserves my whole attention, devotion, and my life. In this way, Easter also gives opportunity to LOOK FORWARD. How will I live today in light of all Jesus has done for me? May I walk worthy of His calling!

Let me give a brief update on our situation. First, thanks to each of you who continues to pray for our family. We are so grateful! We are still waiting to proceed to the next step with Norman’s pursuit of ministry within the States. He has applied to a new position (within ABWE), met online with the head of the division, and his references are being checked. We are waiting patiently for God’s leading in this area.

Our family is slowly settling into my mom’s house with her. We’ve been able to enjoy lots of snow (rare for us, coming from southern Japan!), and our dogs loved it, too! I’ve already been relieved to be here with Mom. She still strives to be independent, but I’ve been able to lend a helping hand here and there, filling in some needed gaps. God is so gracious to allow me to serve my mother in this way.

My family is also gracious to allow me to do this! Melodie has uprooted her life to join us here in this foreign country of the USA! Our diet has changed dramatically. Her activities have greatly changed, and she’s been split apart from her siblings who remain in Japan until this summer. Chloe and Cameron have also been affected, since they are now learning to “adult” without us nearby. They’ve had a few bumps along the way, but it’s probably been good for them! Norman, too, has had a huge life change! Going from Field Team Leader of ABWEJapan to spouse of a caretaker is quite the shift! But he’s had lots of opportunities to speak with various pastors and other men regarding discipleship and how to apply it in each of their locations. Some have responded eagerly, desiring to learn more.

One amazing praise we have is the blessing we received just this past week! Norman was on the search for office space. (Mom’s home is not conducive to a focused time of study, podcasting, or extending ongoing hospitality.) He was beginning to despair of ever finding anything, but God directed him to ask at the village town office if they knew of anything. The clerk gave him a short list of possibilities. Norman contacted the first one . . . located right next door! When asked how he’d use the 1,200 square foot space, Norman was pleased to find out that the owner not only is a Christian, but he is also supportive of what Norman’s doing! The room needs some remodeling, but we hope to be able to begin using it as early as this spring! God’s timing (and location) is perfect! Thank You, Lord!

We’ve heard good reports from Japan. Jonathan Jelliff, who had covered the work while we were on furlough, continues to prosper there. God raised up this disciple at just the right time!

The Trip Back

Checking in suitcases and two dogs

Though the house was still in disrepair and not emptied of our belongings, Norman, Melodie, and I (with Zulu and Fritz) left Kumamoto on February 28. The following day, we had a direct flight from Tokyo to Chicago, about 11 hours long.

In order to take dogs out of the one country and into another, there was much paperwork to complete, mostly to avoid transmitting rabies. Keiko worked diligently to research what was needed, sending in scanned forms, and allaying our concerns.

There were a few bumps along the way (though mostly all went smoothly). First, my shoes fell apart after the first flight! Crazy! Thankfully, I had packed an extra pair.

Secondly, we had an appointment in Tokyo to go through the quarantine area and get the dogs okayed to go. It was super windy that day (and not in Chicago!). All the dogs’ completed paperwork got blown all over the place. Three employees helped track down all but one of them. A fence helped, too!

So, now we’ve been back in the States about two weeks. We’re getting settled into our new residence, living with my mother in the house I grew up in. I’m already glad to be here, because we’ve had snowstorm after snowstorm, with pockets of ice scattered about. Being here to assist my mom sets my mind at ease on so many levels. We’d appreciate your prayers as each of us adjusts to the many changes.

We’re not the only ones moving. We had been trying to sell our home in Japan, since we’re not sure how long we’ll be stateside. The day before we left, a friend of a friend came to look at the property and was in desperate need to get out of their apartment by the end of March. They would need to move in within three weeks’ time! We had planned for Chloe & Cameron, and the new leader of the Kumamoto team to live on our property until June and November, respectively. Suddenly, each of them needed to get out! Keiko graciously lived up to her name (child of grace), and offered to let our kids move in with her until June. Jonathan is still searching for temporary housing and cleaning out our house in our absence. Crazy days!

We are so grateful for those who have been praying for us in this transition time. We still don’t have any concrete answers about our next step, though Norman is pursuing a related ministry within ABWE. Keep those prayers coming! And let us know how we can pray for you!

Snow is so beautiful!
God’s beauty in creation

Counting Down

Happy Valentine’s Day! Some people may count down to this holiday, but our family is counting down to another event… which is pretty major in our lives right now! If you receive our prayer letter, you already heard our big news — that we are planning to return to America for an indefinite amount of time in order to live with my mother in Wisconsin. She’s at the age where she could use some help, companionship, and extra care.

So, we are packing up our home, choosing what to take, what to toss, and what to give away. Not only our home, but also the coffee shop in Minami Aso. Coronavirus effected this work immensely, and we were unable to continue this outreach and ministry in this location. Today, Melodie, Norman, and I went to the building, filling bags with garbage, setting aside things that are still “good,” and waiting for the movers to transport the piano to its new home.

What will be Norman’s next step as we return to the States for the foreseeable future? He’s still figuring that out! There are several options that we’re considering. He plans to continue his call to being a disciple-maker regardless of his location. That hasn’t changed. The details are still to be arranged, and we’re confident that God knows what they are!

So, this Valentine’s Day means we have exactly two weeks left in Japan. Chloe and Cameron will stay in Japan until June, but Norman, Melodie, and I (with our two dogs!) will fly to America on March first, God willing.

We are thankful for the encouragement we have received from many of you, telling us of your own experiences with aging parents, how God has blessed, and how He has worked in and through that special time. We look forward to learning, growing, and loving more and more. Please keep us in your prayers during this big transition for our family. Thank you!

The Return

After the kids recovered from jetlag, they returned to their karate dojo, where Chloe and Cameron received their black belts! They passed the test last year in June, but the belts hadn’t arrived before we had to leave for furlough. Congratulations!

Being able to attend the international Bible study again was a huge blessing and much anticipated meeting! Jonathan Jelliff has been doing a great job providing leadership for this group in our absence, and we got to witness it ourselves! We were also blessed to have Elijah lead the music. He also did a great job! We are so thankful for their servants’ hearts and willingness to pick up where we left off.

We really enjoyed our furlough, traveling to about thirty churches in our seven months in the States. We are back home in Japan, and I’m finding it a whole lot easier to cook here than in America! Food options, menu choices, gas stove, and my familiar kitchen make cooking a breeze. My kids reminded me that it wasn’t like this when I first arrived in Japan! How well I remember that! I had to toss my US recipes out, since I couldn’t buy the ingredients called for. After twenty years, I’ve figured it out! The kids had a short list of “Make this meal!” We have had Japanese rice, oden, fried rice, gyoza, rice balls, and yakisoba.

Our family was blessed to spend time on furlough with so many different Christians. Japan is such a different environment spiritually. Thank you for fellowshipping with us during our stay!

To Love is To Know

We can get to know new people! (Chloe and Rachel, 2014.)

Between reading Acts and Psalms, I realized what a blessing it is to “be known.” Acts 1:24 acknowledges that God knows everyone’s hearts; Psalm 31:7 says, “I will rejoice and be glad in your faithful love because you have seen my affliction. You know the troubles of my soul” (CSB). I believe God has given each human a desire to be known, whether it’s by our family, our friends, or God. There’s something wonderful about people really knowing me! When I meet someone new, and they don’t even try to know more about me, I come away feeling disappointed. I remember feeling this way even as a child.

It’s not easy or quick to really know another person . . . or God. It takes time, diligence, and love. This idea is changing how I relate to people. This past week, we visited a church where I don’t know many people. One guy sat a row ahead of my family, and since we were there early, I decided to try to get to know him. I asked about his family, his siblings, how he’d spend Christmas this year. I learned more about him, and it will make talking to him again easier. I’d like to think that he went home happy, to know someone cared enough to dig a little deeper. It reminds me of Jesus when He “saw” an individual against the background of the crowd. He reached out to individuals. He noticed them.

Norman’s been saying for years now that, in order to bear one another’s burdens, we must know people well enough to know what burdens they have! I get it now! It’s so simple, yet I have missed it. To my shame, I haven’t always been interested enough to learn more about individuals. If they need help, I might reach out. Too often, people become projects.

Of course, not everyone is open to being known. I could have attempted to get to know the guy at church, and he could have answered in monosyllables, shutting me out. I can only do what I can do. Their response is up to them.

What better way to mirror God’s love for me than to love someone enough to get to know them! Sometimes it takes times of simply being together with someone before they feel ready to open up and share of themselves. Or feel like they can trust me. I’m like that, too! It’s also good not to overlook those closest to me (my children, husband, family members, church people). I have the opportunity to know these on a deeper level than those I see only occasionally. Haven’t you ever wished your parents understood you better? How about your spouse? Wish you knew what your kids were thinking or feeling? Part of the challenge is figuring out ways to draw them out, to make them feel comfortable revealing the inner workings of their hearts.

As we hang out with extended family and our church body in the coming days, let’s try to show greater interest in the people God brings into our circle. How well do you know each one? Who might be receptive to you? Who is on the fringes? Let’s learn to truly know better the people around us, one by one.

If you have suggestions for good questions to use or tips for getting to know others, please send a comment! I have lots of room to grow in this area.

Merry Christmas!

Our family wishes you a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

We never know what God has in store for us when the new year rolls around. I’m glad He has control of all that! When our Commander is reliable, trustworthy, and caring, we have no reason to fear the future! The best part is that He walks along beside us every step of the way, guiding, comforting, encouraging, and empowering us.

What a blessing it is to be God’s child!

Chloe and Cameron sharing special music in Green Pond, Alabama – December 18.

Sorrow Turned Joy

Jesus told His disciples, “You will become sorrowful, but your sorrow will turn to joy” (John 16:20 CSB). He said this relating to His coming death and return to the Father. Yes, His disciples would be sad when they witnessed His crucifixion, but later, after they understood its purpose, they would be joyful. They’d be SO joyful, in fact, that their sorrow would be all but forgotten, like a mother after giving birth forgets the agony of labor (verse 21).

In life, we, too, feel sorrow from time to time. I think of my friend who is facing cancer and a life-changing surgery. We grieve a loss (of many kinds). We sorrow over life change; we find new physical limitations; we are treated poorly or betrayed; we hurt in all sorts of ways. But having faith — we will understand the purpose later — we can access that joy even in the sorrow. That is a work of God! Only divine help supporting our faith can enable us to see past the sorrow of today to embrace the joy of the future.

“Therefore we do not give up. Even though our outer person is being destroyed, our inner person is being renewed day by day. For our momentary light affliction is producing for us an absolutely incomparable eternal weight of glory. So we do not focus on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” (2 Corinthians 4:16-18 CSB)

“Let us run with endurance the race that lies before us, keeping our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of our faith. For the joy that lay before him, he endured the cross . . .” (Hebrews 12:1b-2a).

Oh, Father! May this kind of faith be true for me! When difficult news comes my way, help me look past the temporary discomfort to the joy awaiting me, understanding that You have a divine purpose in every sorrow You allow into my life. Increase my faith! Help me lift up my eyes to the joy ahead. Amen.

Minnesota Memories

Our family is on a two-week trip, staying one week in Minnesota and one in central Iowa. On Monday, we were able to meet up with our Japanese friend, Ritsuko, who lives in Minnesota. She set out an astounding amount of food for us! We took half of it home with us and are still eating it!

As I think back over how we met Ritsuko, I see God’s amazing hand in each part of the story. First, Ritsuko’s parents live in Kikuchi, the town we live in. It’s the same town where we opened our first coffee shop. Ritsuko was the first person to attend our first Bible study there. She was visiting Japan for an extended stay, and our family got to know her then. Her husband grew up near where I grew up in Wisconsin. And her MN home is right on the way between two of our supporting churches. We keep running into each other!

This week is sort of a “breather” for us. We are camped out in the lovely basement apartment of Mrs. Merrill in SE Minnesota. Good timing, because our kids caught colds and needed a quiet place to take it easy. The fall colors are gorgeous here this week!

We will visit Calvary Baptist Church in Rochester, MN, on Sunday. Following our time there, we will attend the Global Reach (missions) conference at Faith Baptist Bible College. We hope to be able to speak with college students and share the need in Japan. We need more workers!

September Happenings

We are enjoying cooler fall temperatures as autumn comes to Iowa! We have had a busy schedule, but we are being encouraged as we fellowship with our supporting churches around the area. What a blessing to sing together, hear testimonies, and share how God is working.

This coming week will be busier than usual. We’ll visit three churches, fellowship with old friends, tour a dog trainers’ school, and travel hundreds of miles!

Last night Melodie and I helped the church here to put labels on 4,500 water bottles in preparation for a parade event . . . which got rained out today! The event continues into tomorrow, so maybe they’ll have another way to distribute them! They each say something about Jesus being the Living Water. How wonderful to know Christ and have our deepest thirst quenched! I am grateful for God’s life-giving sustenance.